First Love, God

In Matthew 10:37, Jesus made a puzzling statement: “People who love their father or mother more than Me are not worthy of Me. Those who love a son or daughter more than Me are not worthy of Me.”

To keep that hard saying of Jesus in context, however, He showed us a bigger picture in Matthew 22:37-39: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and all your soul and all your mind. This is the first and great commandment, and the second is like it. You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”

Clearly God wants us to love other people and ourselves very much but not put what they want –or what we want – before anything God wants.

What does God want? Who can possibly know without knowing what God says? And so, Jesus urged His followers to listen to God. Quoting from the Torah (Jewish law) He commanded: “Hear, O Israel.”

Known as the Shema (Hebrew word for listen), the full commandment in Deuteronomy 6:4-9 says: “Hear, oh Israel, listen! The Lord our God is the one and only Lord! Therefore, you must love the Lord with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength. Keep these words I am commanding you today in your hearts and on your minds. Repeat them to your children. Talk about them when you sit around your house and when you go out, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them on your hand as a sign, and put them on your forehead as a symbol. Write them on the doorposts of your home and on your gates.”

As these Bible verses show, God wants us to use everyday opportunities and experiences to show our children, friends, and neighbors our beliefs. Even strangers who knock on our doors will be able to see that we belong to the Almighty Lord God and Father of Love if we have symbols and signs of God all around our yards and houses. A lawn statue, a Bible verse plaque, a cross on the wall, or a dust-free Bible on a table can openly but quietly attest to our love for God in a way that people can see as soon as they enter our homes. More importantly, those same signs, symbols, or icons also remind us to love God and to put God first and foremost – in our relationships, decisions, our daily activities, and even our décor.

Prayer: Dear Lord God, help us to love You more and put You before anyone or anything else at any time. Help us to listen and really hear what You have to say to us. Help us especially to see how You first loved us so much that You gave up Your only Son for us, so we could forever be Your beloved children too. We thank You and praise You, O Lord God, for your ongoing love.

Mary Harwell Sayler, from her book What the Bible Says About Lovecontemporary paraphrases of the scriptures on love interspersed with short devotionals

What the Bible Says About Love: scriptural prayer-a-phrases